
“向晴”不是因为生命没有阴天,而是在阴天里,依然选择转向光。曾经,她也习惯用过去的经验、固有的思维与熟悉的方式去应对人生的问题——努力、承担、解决、控制。在 SDE 的学习中,她开始有了新的看见:生命不是重复过去的模式,而是在每一个当下重新觉察、重新选择、重新发生。她学习的,不只是“发现”生命的问题,而是参与生命的“发生”;不只是分析过去,而是在当下创造新的可能。
“Xiang Qing” — turning toward the clear sky — does not mean a life without cloudy days, but choosing, even on cloudy days, to turn toward the light. She once met life’s problems with past experience and habitual thinking: striving, bearing, solving, controlling. Through her study of SDE, a new way of seeing opened up: life is not the repetition of old patterns, but a re-noticing, re-choosing and re-occurring in each present moment. What she learns is not only to “discover” life’s problems, but to take part in life’s “occurring” — not only to analyze the past, but to create new possibility in the present.
多年的家庭、婚姻、亲子、企业经营与生命成长经历,让她越来越相信:每一个生命都值得被看见,每一个关系都有重新连接的可能。「向晴有光」是她记录生命探索、陪伴同行的空间——分享关于家庭、关系、亲子、情绪成长与信仰的思考与实践。愿这些文字像一盏小灯,陪伴正在经历风雨的人:在真实中遇见自己,在关系中学习爱,在每一个当下向光而行。
Years of experience in family, marriage, parenting, running a business and personal growth have led her to a deepening conviction: every life deserves to be seen, and every relationship holds the possibility of reconnection. “Xiang Qing You Guang” — where there is a turn toward clarity, there is light — is her space for recording the exploration of life and walking alongside others, sharing reflections and practice on family, relationship, parenting, emotional growth and faith. May these words be a small lamp for those weathering life’s storms: to meet themselves in what is real, to learn love within relationship, and to move toward the light in every present moment.
借一双「事物如何发生」的眼,在自己的领域里落笔——把 SDE 作为隐性的引擎,用本行的母语写作。作品通过合宪性审读后,将署名发表于此。
Borrowing an eye trained on how things come to be, and writing in the native idiom of one’s own field — with SDE as a hidden engine. Once a piece passes its constitutionality review, it will be published here under this name.